Tuesday 6th August
I
am now home safely after an uneventful flight home.
On
Thursday night I finished posting my blog and prepared my laptop
which would be left for PIZZ school. The laptops they have both are
suffering from some faults. One has a screen that doesn't function
and the other has a couple of keys that are extremely difficult to
use.
On
Friday morning I went to the school to talk to more of the children
being sponsored and to hand over the laptop. As always there was more
to discuss and do than I had accounted for. We set the computer up
with the local Skype account, I was offered a drink and some biscuits
and by the time we were finished it was getting on towards 15hrs. I
had already told a number of people that I would be available from
lunchtime and the number of my phone calls was increasing.
My
last day in Monze is always frantic and I have never managed to
complete all the tasks and see all the people I want to. I am aware
that there are people that I haven't seen at all on this visit and
many others who I have only met briefly. I was aware that Fr Raphael
was meeting me at 14 hrs, as was Obert's mum, Diven was calling
around at lunchtime and I needed to return the dongle to Luke. As I
said it was already approaching 15 hrs and I was a kilometre or so
from the flat! Oh and I hadn't yet picked up my new shirt and the
chitenge pieces for the African quilt!
So
another very busy few hours were ahead. My flat was occupied by one
or more of my friends until about 19hrs. At last I was free to make
my 18 hrs appointment with Diven!
It
has been a tradition for many years to sit in Tooters with a bottle
or two, a meal and discuss all manner of issues with Diven. This
would be the first and last time for this visit – but it was
important that we had this opportunity. Diven has had a difficult
time ever since his father died when he was about 11 years old.
Unfortunately there is still a tradition here that the family of the
man often claim his possessions when he dies. Diven's father was a
farmer with some animals but Diven was left with nothing and has
effectively had to fend for himself ever since. He told me that many
of his school friends have not survived.
It
is good to see see him looking so well these days. He struggles to
earn enough to buy food. He often fails to raise enough for his rent
or for clothes and shoes. It is hard for us to understand how fragile
life is here for many. My friendship with Diven has given me an
insight into a world that we are hardly aware exists. He does not ask
for a lot, but as a friend I cannot see him without food or shelter –
so when he is stuck, I see him through. Just to see him so happy more
than makes up for my small contributions.
Diven's
shop is slowly getting more stock – most of it still detergent
paste. The owner had promised to install extra shelves, but these
haven't materialised and I doubt whether they ever will. I still
don't understand Diven's plan – it seems to revolve around the
detergent paste, which he regards as his capital. I suppose it
enables him to fill the shelves, whereas with most expensive products
they would be half empty.
We
chatted for a couple of hours before I returned home to start
packing!
I
decided to pack the bananas that Soloman gave me for Amy as they
were, still attached to the stem. I would wait till Lusaka to remove
them. I had been given a few presents for myself, Dilys and Deana.
St. Veronica's Small Christian Community gave me two tee shirts
marked with Our Lady of the Wayside on the back and having a picture
of Our Lady on the front pocket – one for me and the other for
Dilys. I feel a bit embarrassed that I always receive gifts such as
this and I rarely think of suitable gifts to bring. I sometimes have
photographs from the previous year but it is humbling to see the
efforts made to ensure I go back with a gift. I was given two
handmade bags and two bags of groundnuts by Catherine – for Dilys
and Deana.
In
addition I had bought some additional tee-shirts for our church, my
usual mixture of baskets, bags etc. from the hospital project for
orphaned children and a few pieces of chitenge material. I packed the
items wondering whether I would be able to bring them all into the
UK!
I
had no scales but judged that neither case weighed more than 20kg (at
least when the bananas were removed!)
I
settled down for sleep at a little after 23 hrs – which is a early
night for me.
I
rose at about 7 am to sunshine. The past couple of days had been
cool, cloudy and windy. I was told that there had even been rain in
some parts of Zambia – something virtually unknown for August.
I
had expected to see Jennipher on Friday and was surprised that she
didn't appear. I was a little concerned in case something had
happened – though it might have been that she was disappointed at
not joining me and was finding a final visit difficult.
I
had some breakfast, finished packing and headed past Tooters to
engage a taxi. The guys here are waiting for any chance of a fare –
these seem to be few are far apart. Someone offered to take me to the
Tooters Roadhouse (Golden Pillow) – about 1 km - for 15 kwacha
(just under £2). I agreed, but as I was about to step into the car,
Selina called out and Jennipher also appeared. So I invited them to
jump in with me . We fetched my luggage from the flat and eventually
I found someone who would take my keys. We were all taken to the
Roadhouse where I bought a ticket and chatted until the coach
arrived. Our parting was more poignant because Jennipher should have
been travelling with me. Maybe next year!!
The
journey to Lusaka was not too bad. The diversion added best part of
an hour to our schedule so the 9 hrs bus, which left Monze at 9.30
arrived at about 13 hrs. instead of 11.30 am.
As
usual I was spotted by an eager taxi driver as the bus entered the
Intercity Terminal. He claimed that he knew the Ndeke hotel and
offered me a fair price of 30 kwacha. Having made the agreement I
refused all other offers. The depot was very congested and the 80
metres to the parking spot took about 10 minutes. My driver took one
case and I followed with the remaining luggage. He loaded the boot
and we tried to set off. He was evidently not the most patient of
guys and got cross with others trying to exit the car park, driving
back and forwards to demonstrate his frustration. I wondered whether
I had made a good choice!! Eventually he got onto the road and sped
along in what I thought was probably the right direction. He guessed
I might need transport to the airport. I guessed that his car would
make it – I wasn't so sure about arriving without incident though.
On balance I decided to risk it, if Best couldn't provide a taxi for
me. So I took his number and promised to be in touch if my friend
couldn't help.
We
arrived safely at the Ndke hotel – not a place where I had
previously stayed. Justina had arranged the reservation for a
standard room, but I was offered an executive suite when I tried to
check in. Fortunately a standard room was also available and I was
very happy to settle for that!
I
phoned Justina and she said she would meet me at the hotel in about
two hours.
I
had expected to be close to a shopping centre and the hotel I usually
use. However, it seemed that I was a long way from my usual
destination – in the midst of various embassies. There were no
Internet facilities at the hotel so I asked the receptionist for
directions. She told me to go out of another entrance near reception
and I found myself at the shopping centre I knew so well! After a few
more enquiries I found an Internet cafe. After 15 minutes I had
almost managed to open the web page for checking in with Kenya
airways. I decided to pay for another ½ hour and needed it!! The
outcome was a couple of black and white boarding cards and the
checking in process completed. Job Done!!
I
had been concerned about bringing bananas and groundnuts to the UK so
I attempted to check the regulations. Kenya Airways told me I could
bring in 2 litres of wine or spirits which surprised me a little, but
at least clarified that issue. They didn't however advise on other
items. I went to the government websites and eventually downloaded a
pamphet with details of items prohibited and restricted. I was able
to bring in 2 kg of fruit and couldn't find any restrictions on nuts.
So decided I would work on that basis,
I
returned to the hotel and decided to wallow in a warm bath. I was
about to relax when I realised that there was no plug!! Deciding not
to let this go, I asked the guy on reception if he had any spare
plugs – only to receive the response - “not today, maybe
tomorrow” ! It reminded me of comments in a book I read about the
African way of saying no! Apparently it is considered impolite to say
no, or that you will not agree to something, so you provide an excuse
to explain why it isn't currently possible. It was clear that I
wouldn't get a plug – certainly not on the Sunday – probably
never!!
I
was about to return to my room when Justina arrived at reception. She
is setting up an organisation to combat the growing problem of
abortion in Zambia. I have been working with her and linking her with
the Life organisation in the UK. She brought me up to date with their
progress over a drink and I promised to get back to her with dates of
a conference taking place soon in Uganda.
I
asked about the nearest church and she showed me the way to Lusaka
Cathedral, which was close. I have previously attended mass here but,
as usual, couldn't have found it on my own. She left me to progress
home and I returned to the hotel.
Undeterred
by my failure to secure a plug, I returned to my room and once more
had to make use of the medical kit! I have found the most valuable
piece of medical equipment is the pair of scissors - always supplied.
Most items these days are packed in plastic, so I found a piece of
appropriate size and cut it to fit the plug hole!! At last I could
wallow for a few minutes and relax in a warm bath!!
I
read a little more of my novel and headed to the dining room for
supper.
My
stay in the hotel is part of a process of preparation for the jump to
another world. I like to have a time on my own to reflect a little
and think about the return. It is not a time for more nshima, so I
plumped for potatoes with my fish. However, a Mosi is still very
welcome. I finished with coffee and even treated myself to a South
African brandy in the bar afterwards.
I
turned the TV on briefly and found a sports channel. There are times
when you are far from home when life becomes a bit surreal. I was
watching some news clips when they reported on the cheese rolling
event at Coopers Hill, a couple of miles from my home in Cheltenham!!
Not something I was expecting in my Lusaka hotel room!!
I
needed to move the surviving bananas to a bag and place them in my
backpack for the journey home. I also made the final rearrangements
to distribute the weight evenly between my two cases. Ready for the
journey I turned in for an early night – tomorrow would be a long
day.
I
slept well. At 6 am I received another call to wish me a safe journey
– I also had a couple of similar calls on the Saturday evening!! I
turned over and re-awoke a little after 7 am.
I
found that the dining room was set for breakfast. Most importantly
tea was available – as was cornflakes and bread and jam. I helped
myself and with no staff about assumed that this was probably
included with the price of the room.
I
enjoyed the early morning sun and read a bit before heading to the
Cathedral for mass – which was advertised for 10.30. I collected my
things and checked out – leaving my luggage in a storeroom by the
reception desk.
I
arrived at the Cathedral just after 10 am and could hear the singing
and drumming – presumably from the vernacular mass. I decided to
wander around the grounds and found myself at a grotto. This was a
replica of the grotto in Lourdes which has been a very special place
for me. It is interesting that all around the world people choose to
use this as a model to create a place of prayer and peace. I wondered
about the people who would be sitting in front of the actual grotto
in Lourdes at that time - pilgrims visiting the place where the
mother of Jesus Christ (our God) visited a young, poor peasant girl.
A place of tremendous healing, but not, as many imagine, so much of
physical healing, but more importantly of spiritual healing. A place
where the sick and disabled are truly welcomed as being special in
the eyes of God. I sat for a while in prayer.
I
slowly toured the grounds and when I approached the church entrance
again was surprised to hear the priest addressing the congregation in
English. The service had reached the offertory and therefore had some
way to run. The only conclusion I could make was that this was some
form of combined service – perhaps starting at about 9 hrs. If
there are special events – e.g. baptisms or confirmations it is
common for the services to be combined into one longer event! I
therefore decided to enter the church for the rest of the mass.
It
continued – part in the local language and part in English. At the
end the priest announced that he had banns to read for 8 couples. He
called each person out to the front of the church in turn four
couples were having a “white wedding” and the other four were
having their marriages blessed. Eventually the formalities were
completed and I left to return to the hotel.
Before
lunch I relaxed with a Mosi in the now warm sunshine. As I finished
my lunch the guy on the next table introduced himself and finding out
my purpose in Zambia told me he too was involved in supporting
children's projects. He worked for a Zambian NGO and gave me his
details.
By
this time my taxi was waiting and I hurried to collect my bags –
discovering from the receptionist that I needed to settle my bill for
breakfast!!
We
survived the journey to the airport!! and I was dropped at the
terminal more than 3 hours before take-off. I wanted to be early
because on a previous occasion I had to queue for well over an hour.
In the event I waited about half an hour before being able to drop my
bags and then was through security and emigration in less than 30
mins. In the departure lounge I took advantage of the 2 litre
allowance and picked up a couple of bottles of brandy. I read a
little and decided to have a coffee. No sooner had I ordered it than
it was announced that my flight was ready for boarding!!
I
have never understood why at Lusaka airport you go through two sets
of security. Everything is scanned before you get to the check-in
desks and again before you board the plane. There is only one 'gate'
at Lusaka airport. From here you walk to the plane and up the steps.
We
left Lusaka 15-20 minutes before the scheduled take-off time before
the setting sun at about 17 hrs. Some years back when I worked for
Eagle Star Insurance Company I had the joy of an overnight trip to
Greece – returning to work the following morning! When offered a
drink I decided that I didn't fancy a beer or a short but settled on
a gin and tonic – not a drink I usually have. However, it seemed to
be ideal for the circumstances. Whenever I fly now, if I get the
opportunity I have a g & t. The stewardess asked if I would like
two and I thought it would be only right to accept.
It
wasn't much later that the meal arrived and of course a drop of wine
was appropriate – especially since I haven't tasted wine for a few
weeks. When I was offered another bottle however I declined or I
might not have negotiated the exit at Nairobi!!
We
arrived at Nairobi having made up more time – despite having no
time lost. I was not eager to rush off the plane because my 2 ½ hour
time in transit had already grown to over 3 hours. At least I think
so! It appeared that I was now and hour ahead of Zambia time and two
ahead of BST.
I
wondered around the airport with a smile on my face. I wasn't sure
whether this was because I was amused by the comparison of the happy
dark faces with the rather glum light ones (It has always struck me
when I have been to very foreign parts how, once I return to an
airport where I again meet up with the light faces of the Europeans
and Americans, the faces seem so serious in comparison to those I
have been living among.) or whether it was just a result the excess
of alcohol that produced an inane grin!
I
walked from end to end of the departure lounge and eventually found
my way to the airport lounges. In the past I have sat in the Kenya
Airways lounge. It seemed that on this occasion the lounge had been
refurbished. When I showed my boarding pass however I was told that
it wasn't open to me, but only business class passengers
By
the time I found my way back to my boarding gate it was open. I
therefore settled there until boarding commenced. Again we were on
board in good time and took off before schedule. It was nearly
midnight (Nairobi time) but after we were at cruising altitude we
were offered another meal (same choice as from Lusaka). I wasn't sure
that I was ready for another meal, but I seemed to have chosen the
chicken instinctively. I couldn't cope with another bottle of wine
but thought a small tot after supper might settle me down. Of course
bottles of whisky also arrive in twos!!
I
am not sure when I finished my supper. By this time I wasn't sure
whether I was on Zambia, Kenya or UK time. I decide to try to sleep
but with little success. At least I had my glass of whisky to keep me
company throughout the night. I slept very little and finished my
drink just before the lights came on for breakfast at 4 am BST.
We
circled a couple of times and landed just after 6 am - about ½ hour
before schedule.
I
collected my bags without difficulty and headed for the green –
nothing to declare – exit. It always seems deserted these days as
you exit. This time however a guy appeared and asked me to accompany
him into a side room. He asked me if I was aware of what I was
allowed to bring into the UK and what my allowances were. I said that
I believed I was. It became clear fairly early on that in fact the
allowance for spirits had not been increased to 2 litres! Though he
and his mate weren't too bothered that I had exceeded my allowance in
this respect. I was asked where I had come from and what I had been
up to in Zambia, where I stayed etc. Having decided that I was doing
charity work with the church, they seemed quite sympathetic, however
that didn't stop the officer from taking every item out of my cases
and placing them on the table. When his mate saw my birds of South
Africa he became quite excited. I confessed that I had very little
time to watch birds this time, but recommended my other book on
common birds of Zambia. We had a bit of a discussion about bananas
and another colleague confirmed that they were fine as I only had
about 2 kg. The nuts weren't a problem. It must have been about 15 –
20 minutes later that I had everything repacked and I was sent on my
way – with a leaflet giving full details of the official rules!!
I
met up with a couple of Australian ladies who wanted the Central bus
station. I offered to accompany them and we agreed to get lost
together. We were separated when I had to abandon my trolley and try
to manhandle my luggage to the connecting train.
We
met again a couple of times but when the signs became clear we made
our way to the bus station separately.
I
had told Dilys not to bother to come to the airport because it was so
early and the bus service to Cheltenham is very good.
The
sun had risen as we passed over Europe. The peaks of the alps showed
in silhouette and the snow was just visible. When we reached the
channel the sky was clear and Dover and Calais looked metres rather
than miles apart.
It
was overcast in London but mild. On the journey back there was a
little drizzle but the driver said he was expecting heavy rain.
Barby
picked me up at Cheltenham bus station and by just after 11 am I was
again home.
I
settled in and Dilys arrived home after 12 noon. I had a short siesta
and caught up with Dilys.
Today
we had a very pleasant day at Dingestow. I took the opportunity of
catching up a little with David and Hands Around the World while
Dilys and Cheyenne enjoyed the Gwent Wildlife open day.
I
will post my reflections on my trip in the next few days.
Chris