Wednesday, June 16, 2021

Mrs. Chiiya

 


Mrs Chiiya

Today I received the sad news that Mrs. Chiiya died early this morning.

In my last post I mentioned the guest house “Nampeyo” where our team lived during my first visit to Monze.

Nampeyo was owned by Mrs. Chiiya's husband and so it was in 2003 that I first met the Chiiya family. Mrs. Chiiya was headteacher at Tagore Basic School – a government school not far from the centre of Monze – and about half way between Monze Mission Hospital and Nampeyo Guest House.

Over the years Mrs. Chiiya embarked on a number of projects – initially a vocational skills centre, which morphed into a school and eventually became a school of nursing. This nurse training centre is still in operation.

I kept in touch with Mrs. Chiiya over the years and was always warmly welcomed with cup of tea and biscuits! We chatted over family and friends, Hands Around the World and her latest projects among other things. She was always very hospitable and it was good to catch up.

In 2011 when my granddaughter Amy came to Zambia she spent some time with Saki – one of Mrs. Chiiya's children.

Most years I would make a point of contacting Mrs. Chiiya – if I didn't bump into her on the street. She would always invite me to her house. She was a woman with a large presence – not only physically, but also had a large personality. She certainly made an impression!


I will miss her and will always remember what became her catchphrase “It isn't easy”. I trust that she is now at peace, her struggles are over and life should at last be easy. May she rest in peace.


Chris


Saturday, June 5, 2021

The Beginning of my Life in Zambia

 


The Beginning

A parishioner found my blog on our parish website and reminded me that it is time to post again.

My blog online goes back to 2007, but doesn't cover the first years, so I thought that it might be good idea to reflect on where my life in Zambia began.

In 2003 I set out with a team of 8 or 9 volunteers to travel to Zambia. The theory was that we were going there to build an ICU at Monze Mission Hospital.


Hands Around the World is a small charity which had been running for about 10 years. It was established by David Steiner after he spent a year with his family in Zambia. During the malaria season lots of children came to the hospital where he was working, and many died. He decided to set up the charity to do something to support children in the poorest areas of the world and try to make a difference.

Previously teams had been to Monze Mission Hospital and did some work to improve the laboratory and pharmacy buildings. Now you might wonder why a team of 8 or 9 people, often without any building experience, would be sent 5,000 miles to construct a building! This was my first thought when I first made contact with Hands Around the World. My next thought was there must be another reason for us to make the trip. I should point out that before going out the teams were given the task of raising sufficient funds to cover the cost of the trip.

So apart from building work – which in our case amounted to knocking down the wall of an existing building and collecting rubble to help form a base for the foundations! No we didn't get as far as seeing a concrete base laid! - our hosts were asked to give us the opportunity to experience a little of the daily life round us.

In 2003 even making a call to Zambia was very difficult. From what I recall, our visit was planned almost entirely using the postal system. If we were lucky we would get a reply to our letters within about 3 weeks!


We arrived At Lusaka airport in July and it was my first time on African soil. Even now when I arrive back in Zambia I am surprised. It is very familiar, but so much I have forgotten. Yes, the pleasant warmth is there, but there is so much more that it difficult to describe. The character of bird is sometimes referred too as it's zizz. Zambia has zizz! The colour, the sound and the smell is different and for me that has now become so welcoming.

I can't remember my first impressions. An international airport where our plane is bigger than all others and one of only a few without propellers, where you descend from the plane and wander across the tarmac to the arrivals building.

We were lucky – our last letter must have arrived, because there was a minibus to take us to our destination in Monze. For the next 3 – 4 weeks our home was to be a new guest house Nampeyo (now renamed moonlite because of a conflict of names!)– so new that some construction was still being undertaken. There were a couple of showers – though only one provided hot water. I got used to cold showers! It was quite basic, but sufficient.

Each day we work walk the kilometre or so to the hospital, returning to the guest house for lunch. One of the main jobs was helping to make concrete blocks for the foundations. I spent a lot of time with a young man called Obie. I remember he told me that the work was really too hard for him. He said that the calories he needed to make the blocks was more than those he obtained from the food he ate. I have no idea what that must be like. This was the first time I realised what poverty really meant – there would be many times in future years when I would be confronted with the reality of poverty in Zambia. I once read something written by Mother (now Saint) Theresa of Calcutta. She said “some people say that you should give people a fishing rod so they can catch fish, my God some people haven't enough energy even to lift the rod!” I know that this is literally true.


Working with Obie I began to realise why we were in Zambia. Spending my days chatting to Obie – telling him a bit about my life and learning about his set the pattern for the many future visits I would have. There is nothing better than sitting down with someone over a cup of tea or coffee and sharing stories. In fact I always say this is by far the most valuable thing I do on my trips.

I met a number of people on the building site and in the guest house and had a chance to build a relationship. Captain was the guy in charge of making the blocks – he is still around in Monze continuing this work. Lashford was in charge of the building of the ICU. He was lso involved in establishing and building an Evangelical church in Monze. Tragically a child of his was killed while very young in an accident. Chris was a general worker at the Guest House and is still there. Suki – another worker at the guest house – obtained a licence to drive lorries and travels the country as lorry driver. There are others from that period who I still meet from time to time when I visit. Obie has had various jobs selling mobile phones and accessories among other things.

The ICU was completed by local builders in 2006 and I was fortunate to be in Monze for the official opening. It is not a high tech unit as we would have in the UK, but there is a nurse on constant duty looking after no more than half a dozen patients. It will have saved lives.


One day we were asked to provide a volunteer. Somehow that turned out to be me! I was togged up in a gown and taken to the operating theatre where I was to witness a hysterectomy! I had never been present at an operation before and was surprised that a general anaesthetic was not administered – instead the operation was performed using an epidural. The surgeon was Irish and we had met previously. He gave me something of a commentary as he did his surgery!

The other time I volunteered had a more significant impact on me and I like to think it was the key factor which made me return to Zambia and get to know the people better. There was nurse working at the hospital in home-based care. Put simply her role was to visit the many people dying of AIDS and try to bring them a little comfort. She had no drugs other than a few paracetamol tablets.


So one afternoon I was asked to accompany Mrs. Sianga on her rounds. Firstly this took me away from the centre of town into the compounds where most of the local people live. A mixture of (burnt) brick and mud brick houses with either corrugated iron or grass thatched roofs. Generally very simple houses – many just a single room. I think that all the people I saw that afternoon were women and all were close to death – some had a week or two to live - others less. What astounded me was the way I was welcomed into their homes. It was a real privilege to share that time in what was a very personal and private space. I will always remember a lady who was waiting for her daughter to return with a little sugar she was going to beg from a neighbour to go with the nshima porridge (the staple food made from maize meal) she had cooked. The child – perhaps 9 years old, or younger was her mother's main carer.

Since that time I have made other visits with Mrs. Sianga and those working with her – fortunately the antiretroviral drugs mean that AIDS is no longer the death sentence it was in 2003. Each visit has taught me a little more.

Before we said goodbye to Zambia on that first trip, we spent couple of days in Livingstone and visited the Victoria Falls. I have never felt comfortable being a tourist in Zambia because most of my friends in Monze will never get to enjoy the beauty their Country has to offer.


I will end here because I want to devote my next blog to Mrs. Sianga and the work she has been doing since we first met.


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